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love looks not with the eye but with the mind

Most people who aren't sociopaths are capable of imagining falling in love with someone for their personality and fir how they treat you and not solely based on looks

...because they go up and try to engage in conversation?

OP has made prior comments that they don't talk to people they're not attracted to

Maybe the guy isn't a chauvinist douchebag? Maybe she isn't vapid? Try joining the real world and maybe it will make more sense.

Grimmy, remember when I told you that non-terrible people don't decide whether to talk to someone solely based on attraction? Non-terrible people also aren't attracted solely to looks.

Because of age gaps.