That's a lot of words, misused math, and slop just to say "if it's punishable by a fine, it's legal for a price, which isn't even that high".
I wonder if they at least used p-adic metric correctly, but I don't feel like analyzing a slop meme.
I had to look that one up, and it doesn't seem to be even close. It doesn't seem to even present any sort of coherent mathematical concept. It's a mess.
"if it's punishable by a fine, it's legal for a price, which isn't even that high".
And where is the “funny” in restating the obvious without making any effort to make it sound like absurdist deep thoughts? I could have sent a mildly worded letter, would you have preferred that?
You could have not sent anything. But this would have been preferrable to the wordy slop you posted:
They want validation and need to feel like creators with out putting in any actual work...They are just adding to the noise.
Ah yes, the ultimate lazy way out: deciding to ask the Oracle of Delphi questions instead of commanding her to solve my problems, all while navigating RSI. Makes absolute sense.
Then I encourage you to outdo me. Cause this meme just mutated in the wild and Dawkins can shed that tear. 😂
I have already outdone you by posting an already-existing meme.
Touché, but you’ve only outdone yourself because I wasn’t aware of that :P
That’s a very convincing argument. Thank you for the insight.
Aaaand youre using the very same fucking trash to generate an infographic about it? Talk about class treachery.
Class treachery? I am a middle aged software dev that finally got bit by RSI; I ain’t rich and I got no savings, so who do you think is gonna feed my kids if I stop working with AI?
Why are kids always the greatest excuse/reason for anything? In a world like this, you decided to throw kids into it, which will have it worse than your working ass.
We got more money than we would ever spend, are not even working, but we still think we'd be too poor for a kid and would have no time for that. Not even speaking of more than one.
Noone is forced to procreate. And if, there is abortion.
But to be on topic: Switzerland does it better (partially): the fine is proportional to your networth. With 2mio a month, a parking-ticket will equally substantially hit you like it would the broke dude.
Why are kids always the greatest excuse/reason for anything? In a world like this, you decided to throw kids into it, which will have it worse than your working ass. Noone is forced to procreate. And if, there is abortion.
Because we can’t assume everyone has equal access to birth control across culture and geopolitical borders? You’re speaking to someone from a different continent over a net that’s bisecting oceans, we may be conversing casually in one language, but why does everyone assume resource or cultural uniformity from complete strangers when the physics themselves behave differently at different latitudes?
But to be on topic: Switzerland does it better (partially): the fine is proportional to your networth. With 2mio a month, a parking-ticket will equally substantially hit you like it would the broke dude.
I wish it were proportional to net global revenue, now that’d actually be the killer move because you can’t take a hit and still meet quarterly growth formulas without justifying your losses to the shareholder groupthink. lol
conversing casually in one language, but why does everyone assume resource or cultural uniformity from complete strangers when the physics themselves behave differently at different latitudes?
It's pretty easy to assume that someone who uses a very niche social media on some kind of technological device is also advanced enough and capable to use said contraceptives and habe the basic knowledge of how life works.
Cultural thing? A cultural thing forcing me to procreate even when I couldn't and shouldn't? Where? And why is in this place of darkness network coverage and the knowledge of Lemmy? And why even care for privacy...
And if it's for religious reasons: well...if you're just a tool, you especially shouldn't procreate.
a hit and still meet quarterly growth formulas without justifying your losses to the shareholder groupthink. lol
Lol. I'm not swiss, it's just what one hears of its neighbor. But it's still a lot better than, AFAIK, most everywhere else. Here, I don't care for parking- or speeding stickers, it's just a bit more expensive to park whereever I want (except disabled, that is like donating your car). While poor people are killed with one single parking-mistake or speeding. That is highly unfair and unjust. Fines shall hurt.
Cultural thing? A cultural thing forcing me to procreate even when I couldn't and shouldn't? Where? And why is in this place of darkness network coverage and the knowledge of Lemmy? And why even care for privacy...
See? Those are internet-tinted shades you’re wearing, making an assumption that mammalian procreation is 100% voluntary when it’s just as accidental/unlikely as life emerging from entropy at Surtsey for no practical reason at all.
A fish can’t tell water is wet because it’s literally swimming in it. And the little pebble we all live on is so saturated with unlikely convergences that we think probability plays by the same rules in a vacuum compared to our Goldilocks zones and build particle accelerators in a gravity well to detect gravitons. It demonstrably does not. This also applies with subjective experience at the personal level.
Now that’s not to mention the fact that just because I understand you doesn’t mean I agree with your philosophical stance to the issue of reproduction to begin with.
And if it's for religious reasons: well...if you're just a tool, you especially shouldn't procreate.
And that’s the meat of it. That’s your faith in your subjective judgement manifesting as hubristic holier than thou attitude. You most likely don’t want people assuming gender but are now measuring the worth of an entire person’s life experience based on someone’s undeclared beliefs. That’s your fitness function? How does it measure the fitness of a reproduction license for a version of Einstein that developed as a secretly non-binary Aztec priest?
A fish can’t tell water is wet because it’s literally swimming in it.
A lot of words for not saying much. Are you a politician by trade? My point does not change much if procreation is forced. It should not a have been on a an additional layer then.
How does it measure the fitness of a reproduction license for a version of Einstein that developed as a secretly non-binary Aztec priest?
Dude. Are you high? Seriously asking, not judging. What does anything have to do with that? The world sucks for poor people, and they're the ones procreating the most. While they shouldn't. No reason or circumstance makes this point any less valid. Only adds layers to why not.
And why even bring gender in it? Who cares for that? What does procreation have to do with that? If you can't raise a kid properly in this broken capitalist hellhole and only breed slaves for the others, it does not matter what gender you are. Not that it would matter in any other aspect.
Also: belief != religion. I don't care for beliefs. I find them silly and childish but to each his own. Religion is a totally different matter. And also not really adjacent to the point
Dude. Are you high? Seriously asking, not judging.
No. Just negotiating a protocol.
What does anything have to do with that? The world sucks for poor people, and they're the ones procreating the most. While they shouldn't. No reason or circumstance makes this point any less valid. Only adds layers to why not.
And that’s the protocol I am negotiating. That sentence encode implicit assumptions I am trying to wrap my head around. I cannot figure out how you made the leap from this hypothesis: “The world sucks for poor people, and they're the ones procreating the most” to this assertion: “While they shouldn't. No reason or circumstance makes this point any less valid. Only adds layers to why not.”
Trying to parse this because the only assumptions on your part that would make it valid are:
- All poor people MUST be miserable
- All people consider money as important as you do
- Procreation while poor is extending the state of misery indefinitely
And why even bring gender in it? Who cares for that? What does procreation have to do with that?
Because assuming someone’s quanta is the same as assuming their gender. If assuming gender is a faux-pas then assuming anything about someone’s personal life is the same mistake wearing different makeup. If deadnaming someone is rude then asking a religious person (and I am not claiming to be, just to be clear) to justify their personal choices to you using entitled language is just as rude.
If you can't raise a kid properly in this broken capitalist hellhole and only breed slaves for the others, it does not matter what gender you are. Not that it would matter in any other aspect.
If you think the entire world is a capitalist hellhole then your vantage point is narrower than you think. Do you think your subjective experience applies everywhere? Your sweeping generalisation doesn’t even hold WITHIN your own framework, because if the barrier to raising kids that know how to live a happy life is monetary value, then rich people would be more fit to reproduce and happy rich people would naturally outnumber the incompetent/unhappy poor, but that’s not happening, is it?
Also: belief != religion. I don't care for beliefs. I find them silly and childish but to each his own. Religion is a totally different matter. And also not really adjacent to the point
I don’t dispute that belief is not the same as religion, but let me add my bit to make my stance clear: religion is the set of conventions that form around a common practice or shared belief.
Trying to parse this because the only assumptions on your part that would make it valid are:
I really have no idea what you are even on about. If you're poor and want to breed happy slaves for your owning class? Sure, go ahead, be as egoistical as you'd like, I couldn't care less. It's not my life.
If you're poor and live the happiest life, be my guest. Money surely isn't everything. Being happy without money maybe beats being rich but unhappy. I'm lucky enough to be neither.
But if you somehow live in a capitalist something, which i have to assume as you use the net and lemmy, you cannot seriously think money isn't the only important factor.
Also it's obviously the most important metric for most things. Wanna be healthy? Wanna eat healthy? Buy a house or two? Want to travel the world? Want a car or two? Want nice clothes that aren't slave-labour-made? Why should procreation be excluded? A child is probably equal to buying a nice lil summer-house, cost-wise.
religion is the set of conventions that form around a common practice or shared belief.
You're free to believe in this simplicity. Surely it's not used as a means to control the sheeple. If only "common practice and shared belief" then there surely needs to be no hierarchy. But again: totally derailing the point here :)
Then maybe what you are conflating is capitalism and commerce, because the concept of fair trade has been around since the dawn of time and you likely won’t ever get to see it in your city. Try travelling somewhere less “fortunate” with their social/economical expectations and see if your happiness standards still apply.
So still no idea what your point even is. There are some isolated parts of the world with fair-trade and happiness all over where being forced to have a child is great, and being poor doesn't matter at all for procreation. Makes sense.
My point is that I just made an enormous effort over multiple days and typing with RSI just to try to meet you half way and approximate your circumstances and understand where you’re coming from and why you think that way, while you’re still fixated on projecting this discussion through the lens of “reproduction is misery and a sin” to rationally think about it. If cognition has a metabolic cost then continuing this discussion past this point is technically burning trees too. I hope you find the right question. Good lucky!
Sorry for the RSI.
If you can't grasp my standpoint, then try to tell yours? Reproduction is awesome and everyone should do it? Money isn't an important factor to consider before procreating?
My viewpoint is simple: reproduction is the necessity of letting a society explore its potential. If we decide that only happy people should procreate in compassion with our own perception of what happiness should be, but if you set the criteria for who gets to be part of the next generation, you’re restricting what the future of an entire species should be based on your current situation, that’s the entirety of who and what you are.
If you do not? You’re inviting the solution to the issue of misery to exist, at a future point in time you likely won’t witness in person, but the only way for that to happen is to not gatekeep potential in the name of mercy. That’s the hedging strategy of a poor parent that can’t afford toys but has the capability to make a baby, a bacterium in unfamiliar conditions, and a country trying to stay sovereign, or even some hope that wants to reserve a place in Pandora’s futures.
reproduction is the necessity of letting a society explore its potential
You made it sound poetic. In theory I'm totally on your side here. But in reality?
What if you live e.g. in the USA, are poor, your kid and you are superhappy, because you don't value monetary things as high, your kid ignores being bullied not to have the latest iphone (or whatever kids demand to own nowadays) and everything is great. Then your kiddo gets really sick and ...well. Debts pile up, you get the cheapest and worst treatment and then it's over. Would you still say "reproduction is the necessity of letting a society explore its potential...and this potential went poof" or "some hope that wants to reserve a place in Pandora’s futures." Or less dramatic, your kid dreams of being <insert job here> but you lack the funds to send it to the right university. Or the needed tools, or...or...or...
And the US isn't even the worst example of possibilities where one might have been popped in from oblivion into existence. I couldn't look my child in the eyes with dignity when it would be just one of twelve, in the hopes at least 3 survive to care for my ass when i'm old...
The trick in the meme is simpler than it looks: they didn’t break the rules, they changed the yardstick. Make the ruler long enough and a billion-dollar fine measures out as pocket change. That’s the whole con — not cheating the game, just quietly redefining the units it’s scored in.
Here’s the part nobody says out loud: you can change the yardstick too, in the honest direction. That “embarrassing old phone,” an ordinary passport, a skill you don’t think twice about — none of those have a fixed value. It depends entirely on where you’re standing. Take them somewhere they’re rare and they’re suddenly worth a lot. You didn’t break a rule; you just stopped measuring yourself with someone else’s ruler.
The difference between you and the guys laughing in that photo is one thing, and it’s the whole thing: a line you won’t cross even when you easily could. They deleted theirs. That’s not freedom — it’s how you end up unable to tell a small wrong from an enormous one, because you threw out the ruler that measures wrongs in the first place.
And here’s the catch they forgot: you can shrink the fine, but you can’t shrink the damage. The real bill gets kept somewhere their accounting can’t reach, and it always comes due. They look like they’re winning. They’re just early.
(And the clock’s ticking on that — the rest of the world is starting to look at that particular country through a very particular set of shades.)
I know how the world works, and I get the meme. Nothing has a fixed value, I also know that.
But where here is an argument for having children while being poor, no matter where you are. Also poor is very relative, yes. But depending on where you are, geographcially,, there surely are fixed prices on things you, or especially your hypothetical kid, needs, wants or craves. Period. No amount of poetic well phrased ideology is changing that. Unless a certain percentage of people think exactly alike. And that percentage needs to higher than It will ever even approximate to in both our lifetimes.
And here’s the catch they forgot: you can shrink the fine, but you can’t shrink the damage. The real bill gets kept somewhere their accounting can’t reach, and it always comes due. They look like they’re winning. They’re just early.
HM. Enlighten me, where are the parking-tickets ever coming due for me? I just park a bit more expensive. Also, even if those get to me mentally or karma-wise (if you believe in such nonsense), it would to the poor too. On top of a fine being hurting already.
Besides. Haven't even tried to discuss your meme to begin with (nothing wrong with it, depending if you're pro or contra LLM), just asked why kids are always the excuse/reason for everything. If you were forced into procreation and abortion was not allowed/available/whatever and you're still trying to be your best dad: Kudos to you. Bad parents are legion. Still wouldn't really change my point. I would not want to be in a dilemma where I have to decide working for or with the devil or not feeding my kids. Hence I remain free of such burdens and also keep my freedom to make my own moral and ethical rules and apply to them. Bending those morals because I have a child, puts me into responsibility, not the kids ("who would feed them, if...."). I did that.
Not implying you were a bad person, parent, whatever. No offence meant at all.
But depending on where you are, geographcially,, there surely are fixed prices on things you, or especially your hypothetical kid, needs, wants or craves. Period. No amount of poetic well phrased ideology is changing that. Unless a certain percentage of people think exactly alike. And that percentage needs to higher than It will ever even approximate to in both our lifetimes.
Why are you concerning yourself with your kids’ needs? Your impression of a parent’s responsibility towards their progeny is what’s wrong in that equation. I was born in a “lower class” neighbourhood, worse than a rural village even because it’s surrounded by heavy industry and zoning laws weren’t even a thing back then. I paid the price for someone else’s mistake with my own well-being. My dad couldn’t get me everything I wanted, and my late mom had to leave her career as a teacher early to raise me and my siblings when it became obvious she couldn’t do both at the same time. That was a sacrifice she made, but not a compromise. I am both an excellent and terrible example regarding this issue, because I am very difficult to convince of anything. What she tried to deliberately instil in me rarely ever stuck, but what I learnt was the meta-process; because I challenged her at every point. That’s what I am instilling in my own children, now that I have my own. I don’t lecture them or force them to do things, I spend my time raising their capabilities to fish, not to eat the fish I bring home.
HM. Enlighten me, where are the parking-tickets ever coming due for me? I just park a bit more expensive.
Also, even if those get to me mentally or karma-wise (if you believe in such nonsense), it would to the poor too. On top of a fine being hurting already.
Karma? No. I won’t call it that because that’s a human term for an observation we have no reference frame to measure, and it lives at the fringe of equiprobable crossroads.
Besides. Haven't even tried to discuss your meme to begin with (nothing wrong with it, depending if you're pro or contra LLM), just asked why kids are always the excuse/reason for everything. If you were forced into procreation and abortion was not allowed/available/whatever and you're still trying to be your best dad: Kudos to you.
Thank you.I have two kids, the eldest is my stepdaughter and the youngest involved less steps. No forcing was involved. :P
Bad parents are legion. Still wouldn't really change my point. I would not want to be in a dilemma where I have to decide working for or with the devil or not feeding my kids. Hence I remain free of such burdens and also keep my freedom to make my own moral and ethical rules and apply to them. Bending those morals because I have a child, puts me into responsibility, not the kids ("who would feed them, if...."). I did that.
That’s your subjective projection, based on your current situation and every experience you’ve ever been through. While mine are different, I can’t force you to accept or even fully recognise them. Both our views aren’t antagonistic in nature, because they’re viewing the problem from different perspectives and seeing different aspects of it.
Not implying you were a bad person, parent, whatever. No offence meant at all.
None taken! Discussions like these are a delight for me!
Why are you concerning yourself with your kids’ needs? Your impression of a parent’s responsibility towards their progeny is what’s wrong in that equation.
Because it's (would be) simply MY responsibility because I made this life? This life was never asked if it wanted to exist. I just forced it from a comfy nothingness to a harsh life in something. The harshness surely varies from "no worry in the world" to "why can't I just die already?"
Do you not feel responsible? Or is it more like in other species? Here you are, enjoy life or not, that's 100% up to you, but I gave you the chance.
because I challenged her at every point
Sorry that your life wasn't easy. But kudos to that attitude and kudos for paying it forward to your kid. The same attitude that made me what I am. Challenge everything until I am convinced or the other. Never just gulp down indoctrination or propaganda or marketing.
I spend my time raising their capabilities to fish, not to eat the fish I bring home.
That is a very healthy and solid attitude for teaching kids. That's what I would too, I guess.
For perspective: I grew up pretty spoiled. What I wanted I got. I got my own fucking large flat when I was 14 or so. Half of the rooms were empty because I didn't know what to do with them. So financially golden, but that was all, they never thought me anything useful.
When I wanted money to make my dream-buisiness and be self employed, they denied that and tried to convince me how stupid that was. So I had to start with a damn credit. And when it was super successful half a year later they wanted to be part of it (because they made me and made it hence possible at all) and I employed them for doing nothing. And my father actually stole money from me because he had a business-mayor and I do not l, so I let him do the finances. That's why i didn't notice quickly. When I did he already stole a non trivial six-figuress sum (that I know of). Gave the business up, and made another one. Never had contact with them again and they cut me out of their will.
So, that probably fuels your argument, as coming from money can even be worse than growing up poor.
Karma? No. I won’t call it that because that’s a human term for an observation we have no reference frame to measure, and it lives at the fringe of equiprobable crossroads
So...it's just random events me might, or might not accredit to karma or a higher power, if we'd be inclined to do so.
Thank you.I have two kids, the eldest is my stepdaughter and the youngest involved less steps. No forcing was involved. :
Lol, that was eloquently put. Involved less step s 😁
Both our views aren’t antagonistic in nature, because they’re viewing the problem from different perspectives and seeing different aspects of it.
Fair point. Then let me generalize my point somehow: How is the ability to feeding ones offspring be a reason for doing amoral stuff? It's there because of a decision I made (or failed to make or whatever). Simple survival first?
None taken! Discussions like these are a delight for me
Dito. As long AS respectful and fruitful for one or both. So in that spirit, I rather think you're one of the cool dads where money isn't that important, but your love and dedication.
But. In tendency - you probably wouldn't try to argue here - there's a clear correlation between wealth and misery in regard of kids.
As anecdotal argument: I work, for free in my sparetime, in a shelter/helpcenter for abused or otherwise damaged adults. The correlation is very very strong here. The poorer the more fucked up the parents were, the more brutal the abuse, the more broken the adults...
Do you not feel responsible? Or is it more like in other species? Here you are, enjoy life or not, that's 100% up to you, but I gave you the chance.
Oh, I feel accountable for the deeds of my children, but only up to the point whence they learn to say no.
For perspective: I grew up pretty spoiled. What I wanted I got. I got my own fucking large flat when I was 14 or so. Half of the rooms were empty because I didn't know what to do with them. So financially golden, but that was all, they never thought me anything useful.
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Gave the business up, and made another one. Never had contact with them again and they cut me out of their will.
So, that probably fuels your argument, as coming from money can even be worse than growing up poor.
Actually it reframes it in much better terms: value is subjective based on need, a bottle of mineral water you’d walk into a 7/11 to buy on your way to buy a PlayStation is more valuable than its weight in gold to someone trapped in a gold mine. I’ve seen people who go around gathering cardboard and aluminium soda cans from garbage piles they then sell and exchange for their daily bread. That’s a closed trade loop of sorts, and it’s more honest than banking. A parent’s job is to provide what’s needed, not fulfil wishes. A child needs a phone for communication, they don’t need the latest iPhone with an AI chip to do that. A child needs nutrition, not snacks. Coddling is just as bad as apathy, and both are just as bad as being toxic towards the child.
How is the ability to feeding ones offspring be a reason for doing amoral stuff? It's there because of a decision I made (or failed to make or whatever). Simple survival first?
If every genome capable of spontaneously developing a sophisticated moral framework that recognises what’s wrong with its upbringing refused to pass along those genes, what’s going to have a better chance to reproduce?
Dito. As long AS respectful and fruitful for one or both. So in that spirit, I rather think you're one of the cool dads where money isn't that important, but your love and dedication.
But. In tendency - you probably wouldn't try to argue here - there's a clear correlation between wealth and misery in regard of kids.
Thank you. And yeah, there’s always a correlation, just not where we often think it is. :P
As anecdotal argument: I work, for free in my sparetime, in a shelter/helpcenter for abused or otherwise damaged adults. The correlation is very very strong here. The poorer the more fucked up the parents were, the more brutal the abuse, the more broken the adults...
I commend your efforts. And trust me, those people need you and people like you.
A child needs a phone for communication, they don’t need the latest iPhone with an AI chip to do that.
Of course. A very basic one, at best without apps. But the point is that there's no universal rule to help a kid survive (high)school, which often can be very damaging to kids. One wrong step taken, one wrong decision made, one silly error at the wrong time...At my disgusting (in hindsight) highschool the poor got bullied. So everyone tried their best to appear "middle class". Stupid as fuck, but i heard worse stories from other schools.
I commend your efforts. And trust me, those people need you and people like you.
Thanks. And yes they do need help. And it's incredible how many people need help in such a "civilized" nation.
As for your other points: My points made sense, yours made more sense. Hence i retract my initial statement and stand corrected.
At my disgusting (in hindsight) highschool the poor got bullied. So everyone tried their best to appear "middle class". Stupid as fuck, but i heard worse stories from other schools.
I remember being bullied and being called “the genius”, sometimes genuinely by adults, and most of the time sarcastically by other kids. To clarify, the exact alias used was “عبقرينو” (which is the Arabic name for the Disney character Gyro Gearloose), and I used to hate it. It affected my behaviour because I had to mask and adjust my image in order to avoid the moment where I answer questions so thoroughly or ask for clarifications that demonstrate genuine insight that caused my teachers to point me out as an exemplar amongst my classes, because that’s what starts the bullying cycle.
Now here one could argue that bullying is a purely negative experience that should never ever be allowed to happen; or look at this thread and realise how much I’ve been shaped by that experience and see me smiling at this very moment as I reminisce on those days. Both views are valid, and both evoke a different perspective separated by 3 decades. But only the latter considers how life itself can be a teacher, and how it pressed an intelligent vessel into the required shape to hold wisdom.
I do not regret or resent those experiences now. I used to, but not anymore.
I actually experienced the very same. I often deliberately try to act stupid or give wrong answers, just to somehow fit in. Masking is a thing you learn quickly :) The only thing people fear even more than the strange and unknown, is people being smarter than themselves. "Gyro Gearloose" I would've taken as a compliment though. Today. Probably not back then, obviously.
Good you took it well, but also this is very anecdotal. We might've overcome this, but others break and stay broken. Might it be due to lacking help, lacking reference-frame, lacking whatever. So I wouldn't really want that for my kid. Not that one has any influence on it, as school is a mighty force parents often cannot barely compete with. It's 4 decades ago, but I still remember this one guy we bullied hardcore. all day long. all year long. Just because he had poor parents. He basically had the same clothes all year long. What a stupid metric to judge people, but stupid is always majority.
…, but stupid is always majority.
Until it’s not. Until there are more poor but well-educated parents who educate their children in turn.
In Arabic, we have a word with no direct English equivalent: tarbiya (تربية). I think the closest translation might be “custodianship of upbringing,” but it describes the dynamics of learning rather than the mechanics. It’s a bidirectional process (though not everyone will admit that)—it doesn’t just teach children how to solve a specific problem; it teaches them how to develop their own way of tackling an unfamiliar one.
You really cooked with that image description
the top of the image looks somewhat AI, so it is likely the image description is also generated using it.
It is! Everything you see here comes from collaboration with AI.
Mainly because I’m an old fart with too many ideas and RSI to stop me from doing anything with them, so I can’t exactly do it myself with a mouse and keyboard.
Don’t go hating my executive prosthetics. Collaboration with AI can be a positive force. It’s just being used and marketed the wrong way.
No single human is likely to have deep expertise in all of those domains simultaneously, whereas an LLM can synthesize explanations across them instantly.
You can not "collaborate" with an LLM as it has no agency on its own, merely the simulation of it. You use it as a tool, that's it. It also has no inherent expertise on anything (let alone a deep one), it merely generates the closest match which is why it will confidently do total nonsense so often. To use AI as tool safely and correctly you can only ever use it in domains you already know enough to understand when the LLM completely derails. Therefore I (as an example) can use and understand it for research on coding (but not letting it generate code for production, oh my god), but could never use it for finance advise as it could tell me any kind of nonsense without me being able to pick up on it.
You're right on some things, like that AI is marketed and used the wrong way. It's also made the wrong way by stealing literally the collected works of mankind, so to have reasonable approach to AI / LLMs as tool you have to be really cautious, use it carefully and quite frankly skip the media (pictures, audio) generation completely. That one is morally corrupt even in small amounts, plain and simply.
You knew what he meant. Don't be pedantic. Having "a back and forth conversation with an AI, where I also made manual edits at times, to iteratively produce on an image" is too verbose, and "collaborate" sums it up nicely.
Especially since the conversation with the AI is literally in plain English. Do you talk to your power drill in English? Or table saw? Or toaster? No, but you do talk to an AI and have a conversation.
Just because it's not "intelligent" or "self aware"—or other things you definitely don't want it to be anyways—doesn't mean you aren't having a conversation or collaborating. Those words apply just fine.
No, they fucking don't. These differences matter a lot especially because LLMs behave so human-like (as it was trained on us) and we got way, WAY too many people already treating them like equals, work buddies, friends or even fucking falling in love with a tool (ever heard multiple people genuinely fall in love with a power drill or a toaster, or killing themselves because the table saw told them they're the messiah?). Words matter, especially in regards to what we call "Medienkompetenz" in german (lit. "media competency", meaning bring educated in how to safely consume and use any kind of media or digital tool). And even more especially with AI, where not just the salesmen but even the tool itself tells us it can do shit it certainly can not while trying to abuse our emotional weaknesses.
Collaboration (merriam-webster.com) "to work jointly with others or together especially in an intellectual endeavor"
You do not "collaborate" with a fucking toaster. If you think you do with an AI then your Medienkompetenz is lacking and you will eventually, even accidentally, put too much trust in what is essentially a game of chance and the machine will fuck you over, on which it will just say "You're absolutely right!" while you have to witness all the consequences of your action (an AI can't take responsibility because it's just a bunch of complex math). The fact this tool uses natural language doesn't change anything except your impression of it.
Stop subtly treating LLMs like a god damn entity, you're fooling yourself.
These differences matter a lot especially because LLMs behave so human-like
To be pedantic, LLM's don't behave like us, they pretend to behave like us. They're really just complicated auto-correct.
Neural networks have more promise to eventually behave like us, but that's not what the AI craze is trying to propogate.
I am sorry. I take it back. You are correct. Words only have one meaning, and that meaning can never be stretched to mean new things.
I certainly don't want one of my memes to fuck me over.
Most of what you speak of is caused by this simple statement from the onset:
You use it as a tool, that's it.
If you use it as a tool, then expecting anything but minimal compliance would be an irrational expectation, because it will do exactly as you ask, which is the bare minimum to satisfy your requirements.
I got tired of that, so as an experiment, I decided to go about it differently, and made a couple discoveries about how to make it work. Turns out LLMs can’t pattern match things they don’t have in their training sets.
I knew as soon as I read this comment there would be chaos. Sorry, friend
Accessibility is of extreme importance to me.