Amelia_

How's your week been?

1y 8mon ago in trans@lemmy.blahaj.zone

I have, more or less, lost all hope for my transition. I am the same place now as I was ten months ago. I don't sound right, I don't look right, I don't feel right. Everyone else is moving on further and faster, and seems to be getting more results from less work.

I just want to go in to hiding and let everyone forget I exist.

Harry Potter and the Nuclear launch codes

1y 10mon ago in memes from i.imgur.com

Given that there are governmental departments for interacting with muggles, and qualifications taught at Hogwarts, my assumption was that it was like many other fields of study typical members of the public did know little, but plenty of research exists. How much does the typical person know about nuclear thermodynamics? Not much, and they don't really need to, but that doesn't mean all of humanity knows nothing. Hermione states pretty regularly that the spells protecting Hogwarts protect it from being discovered and prevent electrical communications from functioning.

I would think that, in a war with muggles, any wizard signing up to fight would be given training (by those few governmental and academic experts) in muggle warfare, weaponry, and relevant defensive spells needed for such a conflict.

What do you do with photos of your old self?

1y 10mon ago in trans@lemmy.blahaj.zone

can't worry about old photos if you never let anyone take photos of you

hecc you, past me >:3

Lilith's Voice Training Resource Compendium

1y 11mon ago in trans_voice_help@lemmy.blahaj.zone

I don't understand, this is literally what I've seen a bunch of other training guides say, working on raising your larynx, being aware of the sounds your mouth and throat make, and slowly raising your vocal range. What's the difference between this and the other guides?

I swear I'm about to have a breakdown, this is literally the only guide that's straightforward and tells you what to do instead of giving you 15000 word essays on resonance and how pitch isn't that important without actually telling you how to change your voice.

I strongly recommend the below for pure practical instructions, exercises, and demonstrations from beginner to expert

https://buymeacoffee.com/alyssavt/no-explanations-instructions-feminizing

Andrew just wants to open his files on Windows 10

1y 11mon ago in programmerhumor@lemmy.ml from programming.dev

Corporate adoption is Linux is absolutely a completely different discussion. Users of corporate devices are not the owners of their device, they have no expectation of control or freedom, and the tasks completed on these devices are typically simple and restricted. So yes, very little of my initial comment applies to that.

As for your other arguments, I would agree that the general everyday public with very little knowledge of Linux or the differences from Windows should have little expectation of switching over unless they decide to investigate for themselves. The main target my complaints are those people who come in to threads like these who do have the technical understanding to complain about Windows and understand that Linux is different, but constantly whine that they could never switch because this reason or that reason and oh won't those Linux nerds please just accept that Windows is better even though we're talking in the eighteenth thread full of people who hate it.

You're completely right, but there's a good reason why this happens. Why are people so insistent on trying to find fixes and workarounds for a broken system?

It's absolutely the same mindset as boomers complaining about technology these days because they don't want to learn how to download a mobile app. These people grew up with Windows and are too stubborn or insecure to learn something new, even if it's consistently better in multiple different ways. Yes, there are a few exceptions to that argument, but for the most part the arguments against switching to Linux are flimsy excuses, or outdated, or both.

1 year linux anniversary :P

1y 11mon ago in unixsocks@lemmy.blahaj.zone from lemmy.blahaj.zone

gosh yes! Mint plus the upgrades to Proton are what finally got me to move from Windows.

Ubuntu just had a bunch of tiny annoying problems that wouldn't go away, that Mint either solves out of the box or offers simple GUI options to pick a preferred behaviour.

12/10 very cute bean with a very cute setup

^what'^^s^ ^wrong^ ^wit^^h^ ^mint?^ ^:^^<^

How's your week been?

1y 11mon ago in trans@lemmy.blahaj.zone

Yesterday was the first time in my life I came close to self-harm. I bought some bralettes and gaffs to, I don't even know, try to look more feminine I guess? But I tried them on and I looked, for lack of a better description, breathtakingly revolting. So bad I think I must have disassociated for about fifteen minutes, no thoughts no emotions, just pulling them off me like live snakes. Then I had a breakdown.

I had to fight the urge all day yesterday and today to delete this account, and my matrix account, and discord, and any other account I could remember, fight the urge to isolate myself from everyone and everything so I would never have to be perceived by anyone ever again.

Coming out stories?

2y 3mon ago in mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone

What builds are people playing and how are we finding them?

2y 5mon ago in pathofexile@lemmy.blahaj.zone

What are your favourite transfem tips and tricks?

2y 5mon ago in mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone

Grab a blankie, cuties! We’re watching the whole trilogy! :3

2y 6mon ago in unixsocks@lemmy.blahaj.zone from lemmy.blahaj.zone

Vocal training - Technical vs Practice?

2y 6mon ago in mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone

The girl inside has won - My first euphoria

2y 6mon ago in mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone