This sounds like a really grounded way to go about it. Really getting to the root of things.

Thanks for stepping up!

That's exciting af :)

Initial gender transition is a wild ride, and it'll have its ups and down, but I think it's better to be true to ourselves than try to fit into a lie, so go you!

so true

Nobody is really anything except the matter and energy that make them up. Labels are tools humans use to try to categorize things and make meaning when there is none.

Given that you aren't particularly drawn to most gendered terms, specifically ones that aren't gender-neutral enough, consider exploring the label "agender" for yourself. You could try it on and see what fits.

Sometimes a more blanket term like "queer" feels better to people.

A note that we can't wrap our entire being into a single word; there's too much of it to fit, and we're bound to over-pour the container. It can be more helpful to consider them as tags or attributes, not containers.

It's funny, but I forgot that my band MISSU KISSU had a song about genderfluidity. Well, it's more like a silly gay love song that uses genderfluidity as a pun, but yeah!

https://missukissu.bandcamp.com/track/gender-fluid-take-one

That's fair. It's not for everyone, and I don't think the character presented in it is necessarily mentally stable, but I relate to it a lot.

"I / Me / Myself" for sure. For a cis dude, Will Wood has done a ton of self-reflection his own gender identity.

Really, I just recommend anything by him.

Thanks for the ping! Ive messaged them.

I had to stop reading right there