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AuADHD Pansexual Homelabbing Transfem Guitarist :3

I use CachyOS because I don't feel like going through the hassle of installing drivers for my 1070ti. The kernel optimizations are nice, tho.

Could try blocking js. Depending on user preference.

United we rule

3d 8m ago in onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone from lemmy.zip

Gonna buy up all the local stock and re-sell it for profit

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/s

a quest worth doing [rule]

6d 20h ago in onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone from feddit.org

OP needs to go on a quest for more fucking pixels by the looks of it.

Edit: /s

Lemmy.zip 3rd Birthday Giveaway!

7d 3h ago in home@lemmy.zip

I've been on this instance (and the Fediverse as a whole) for around 8 months now, and I couldn't be happier here. Keep it up!

*Meta CLAIMS TO HAVE stripped facial recognition code...

AMA: 1 year post-op from my vaginoplasty

8d 4h ago in mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone

Thanks a lot for the advice. Sounds like you went through some tough shit, but I'm glad you made it out. I can't wait to put some of this to use!

Edit to add:

I know my time with my conservative friend is limited. I have an older trans sibling, and their plan is to slowly cut ties as they move out, and in planning on following suit. For what it's worth, they're still somewhat decent people, but I've realized I can't have family that would want me dead.

Also, thanks for the response in general. This whole thing is terrifying to me rn, and being accepted like this is helping a lot. Super glad you've handled it well, I hope I can too.

Hello and congrats! I have recently discovered that I'm a woman, and am curious about surgery and transitioning as a whole, so I have a lot of questions:

  1. How has transitioning as a whole been for you? Getting on hormones, wardrobe changes, socially, etc? I'm only out to my close friend circle, but already know my close family is cool with trans people.

  2. If you have any conservative/anti-trans people in your life, how have relationships been with them since you started? Have you cut ties, or hidden your transition, or anything else? I have some bigoted family that are otherwise decent people and that I'd like to stay connected with (for now, at least).

  3. How was surgery as a whole? What was pre-op like, any things you didn't like about it, things you had to compromise on, etc? I've never had surgery in the first place, so this would be extremely foreign to me.

  4. If you don't mind, what was dysmorphia like for you? I've wondered for a while before now what it'd be like to be a girl, and have especially felt it in the genital area. And on the occasion I've been "misgendered," I always felt really good about it.

  5. How have you learned to do feminine stuff? Like chest measurements, makeup/nails, other clothes stuff, etc? Just researching online, or do you ask cis friends, or something else?

  6. Are you doing any voice training? If so, anything you can recommend to help? I have a lower voice and a small range, so anything helps.

  7. Any resources you can recommend me on this? Where to learn about treatment, advice on how to do this stuff?

Again, I'm still extremely new to this space (and social anxiety's a bastard in this context), so any advice is much appreciated.

me_irl

8d 6h ago in me_irl from lemmy.today

What, not gonna take me AdGuard Home first?

egg🥰irl

12d 22h ago in egg_irl@lemmy.blahaj.zone from lemmy.blahaj.zone

Just to find out it wasn't a mistake :3

Amount of paper I used in one school year

20d 2h ago in mildlyinfuriating from lemmy.zip

What if medicine intentionally tastes bad?

2mon 29d ago in showerthoughts

Nineteen-Eighty-Four(ule)

3mon 9d ago in onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone from lemmy.zip

DeGoogle for School

3mon 24d ago in degoogle@lemmy.ml