Nissa

almost six years on hrt and very happy about it 😌

29d 7h ago in trans_joy@lemmy.blahaj.zone from lemmy.blahaj.zone

Absolutely gorgeous! You look so happy!

dresses are so fun!

29d 8h ago in trans_joy@lemmy.blahaj.zone from lemmy.blahaj.zone

Love it! So fun, it looks great on you.

Not-so-conflicted (skirts)

1mon 1d ago in mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone

I'm so happy for you! Enjoy it, be comfortable!

learning drums:)

1mon 1d ago in trans_joy@lemmy.blahaj.zone from lemmy.blahaj.zone

Awesome thanks you the tip!

Hell yea! Drums are sooo fun and a great place to start. I tried to start with bass but have serious problems with maintaining rhythm. The drums have really helped with understanding rhythm. Keep it up and most importantly have fun!

Feeling conflicted (skirts)

1mon 5d ago in mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone

Thank you for sharing, you have come to the right place! Skirts and dresses definitely feel more exposed than pants for sure. You are so used to that extra fabric right up against your back side. Now the air can freely flow, it almost feels like you're naked. There is definitely a learning curve to it, and if you like the way you look you'll get used to it.

I felt the same way when I donned my first skirt, but as soon as I looked in the mirror I stopped caring. Now it's all about not accidentally flashing people (just my wife for now but still). Learning to fold my skirt underneath me when sitting was step one. Learning to bend at the knees, legs together, back straight was step two. If there's a step three, I haven't learned it yet.

That being said, you don't have to wear skirts or dresses to be feminine. There are tons of options, what's right for me doesn't have to be what's right for you. My wife is a horse girl, all jeans or sweats, tee shirts, hoodies. Doesn't like jewelry, doesn't do makeup. I'm the girly one in our relationship and that's fine. Do what makes you happy, your happiness is all that matters.

Feel free to drop by anytime. We will be here, excited to hear how things are going and to answer any questions you may have!

shaved myself

1mon 5d ago in mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone

This sounds soooooo amazing! I'm definitely going to have to try this

Does the IPL gun work well? Do you have to use it often or are there areas the remain hair free? The wife and I are planning on getting professional laser hair removal but in the short term anything that can help reduce the amount of shaving I need to do would be great. Especially for my chest hair which gets really irritated from shaving because it grows in a non linear direction. Any info would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!

First full outfit

1mon 6d ago in mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone

Thanks I appreciate it!

Give it time, you'll feel comfortable enough soon enough, and we'll be here when you are!

Thanks, It's my favorite!

Bigender

1mon 10d ago in mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone

IBEW Local 265 loves you!

1mon 21d ago in mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone

Help in the boosum department

2mon 3d ago in mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone

Feeling a bit more feminine

2mon 4d ago in mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone

Truth

2mon 4d ago in transmemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone

Bra and panties help

2mon 7d ago in mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone

Girlmoding after work is so fun!

2mon 8d ago in trans_joy@lemmy.blahaj.zone

Girlmoding after work is so much fun!

2mon 8d ago in mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone

First pic!

2mon 9d ago in trans_joy@lemmy.blahaj.zone