So things are almost impossible to delete here, the modlog is public and activitypub (what lemmy integrates with) is not meant for privacy. I am concerned you revealed too much about yourself in one go like your age, location, where you go to school, hometown, even specifics about your parents. I do caution having better OPSEC on the internet in general. Lemmy is also very leftist, as in left to your democrats, you'll find anarchists/communists/socialists here so you might want to understand these theories before diving into political discussions. There's also not many (if any) who like corporate LLM here. Anyway, good luck here.

During tsunamis, take this very seriously and don't go down to the beach. Don't be looking at waves. Get yourself as high as you possibly can. 🥦🌳🌿

context

https://invidious.nerdvpn.de/watch?v=sKFgJ-fgWbU

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sKFgJ-fgWbU

maybe don’t fuck like a bunny with so many people

This is the weird slut-shaming I was referring to.

You can go fuck all you want, but please do not spread any diseases and do not get pregnant if you can’t afford a kid in the first place

Women cannot control whether they get pregnant or not. No birth control is 100% effective. Even the high percentages you see are 'perfect use' and mean for every 100 women, 10 women actually get pregnant with 'typical use' while using their birth control (Source). The higher effective ones are things like the IUD and arm implant, devices that are expensive and come with their own risks but are also not 100% effective; although they're the closest you can get. Women have all sorts of reasons for picking their chosen birth control, some cannot handle hormones at all. Even I've been wrecked by various birth controls. You are effectively saying sex is only for procreation and nothing else.

If you do abortion then, it is clearly unethical, no matter what.

There is no reason to judge a woman's choice to abort as ethical or unethical. None. As in, it is offensive you are suggesting this. Shit happens. Most abortions are not due to rape and even knowing this, it does not fucking matter. The fact you assume she is lazy is atrocious. It isn't documented why she was pregnant because it's none of your business!

And no, knowing she was pregnant does not help determine how far along she is unless she had sex and then never had sex again after that and then caught on to her missed period (assuming she has regular periods, I personally do not even before I started birth control). C'mon, please web search this because women are not identical birthing machines.

Some women feel early pregnancy symptoms within a week or two of getting pregnant, while other women may go months with no pregnancy symptoms. Maybe your symptoms are subtle enough that you don't recognize them. Some women have a cryptic pregnancy, which means they don't realize they're expecting until late in pregnancy. According to the Cleveland Clinic, about 1 in 475 women don't know they're pregnant until about 20 weeks, and 1 in 2,500 don't know they're expecting until they're in labor. Source

This is such a bad take. I guess I must be 3 years pregnant /s. You have no idea what it is like to be a woman and living in poverty, let alone one that is also a mother and cannot afford another kid. Slut-shaming is misogynistic as well, women are not mechanical clocks and we do not freak out over every missed period. Please reflect on this. The problem is capitalism once again, but you care more about a woman and a miscarriage instead of why she was in this predicament in the first place.

I thought this was a drawing of a sim at first, the shoes and the dress were almost exactly what a modded sim looks like (alpha clothing).

Omg you beat me to it, I loved the chao gardens in SA and SA2.

I cannot see how mods could decide if my argument has a scientific basis without me submitting my medical history, which creates the risk of being silenced for "bad faith arguments" when i wont do that.

I would not ban for this. You don't need to send your medical history. I have not looked through your posts/comments but please don't think you would be banned for a medical issue you have no control over.

I really like this approach and have brought it up with others. We have a warning system btw, I've used it a few times and it would be great for telling people how many times they have done X before more extreme measures are taken. Before you were either PM'd if more info was needed or temp banned.