FWIW, I've only ever heard it used that way...

I'll let it do whatever it wants to do. I already get frustrated with my curly hair because I resent the amount of time it takes to care for it. And I stopped colouring my hair for similar reasons years ago. So whatever it does, it does!

That being said, it's beginning to look like I may take after my father, and not go grey...

Unrelated to the larger topic, but how do you find Endurain? I want to dump Strava, but last time I looked at self hosted Strava alternatives (maybe a year ago?), none of them really came close to parity in features.

It depends. If one of the barriers of going to the gym was dealing with gym bros, then you'll find it to be a much better, more comfortable environment. But if that isn't what was keeping you from the gym last time, you may still struggle with sustaining the habit.

That being said, if you can get a free trial, it's absolutely worth giving it a shot!

It won't. Which is the point. The goal is to fuck everyone over who doesn't fit in their neat little boxes and to distract from their other political choices

It looks like a giant stim toy...

TIL, there was a time when the internet only supported monochrome images :P

DARVO - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/DARVO

My tone was probably a bit harsh because I was getting frustrated

You poor thing. A marginalised, discriminated group at risk of losing even more of their rights keeps arguing with you, instead of just accepting inequality. That must be frustrating for you