I am not sure what's up with you. But I suppose, this just gave me the answer.

But ultimately it doesn't matter? And I just wanted to say that basically. That we're not gaining anything by sitting around pointing and laughing at someone. I mean we really aren't. And that was the stance that I wanted to take. That I think we could all use some more balance to our internet expression.

Which is a leap and a bound for myself, as I am a real fuck-face of expression. But ultimately I just don't think it's cool everyone sits around pointing and laughing at anyone in front of me or online I suppose.

I think in general people gawking at one another is not only training us to react to things that challenge us with bullying (mockery) but equally it doesn't help us grow as a people. I hate racist, I don't benefit a damn thing from hanging with racists. But I will also say that racism is there. I am not going to pretend it's not. And I will also say that by thinking/talking/etc. feeding the media machine and filling it with someone's name you basically increase the chatter about them. Which I suppose you can see right now.

But that all together I would love the face of the internet to change because I think we're too prone to low-level jeering. And I think we can do better as a people. Which I would say is why I have never been on 4Chan and was very happy to leave Reddit. Because people who communicate like that in real life a fucking assholes. And I don't really want to be a part of that. Putting someone down, to pick myself up.

I literally started reading this and I just don't care enough to have this information floating around my head. I don't like celebrity worship. But I also hate bullying. And I consider sitting around laughing at people that. So that's why I figured I'd state something. Not so much because I want to defend Morrissey. More so because he did a thing, let sleeping dogs lay. Who gives a crap? And people can believe in whatever they want, as long as they're not plowing in to others. I do agree that celebrities should be more responsible with their beliefs. But I also think people are entitled to their opinions even if they're absolutely drenched in shit. I've got nothing else. You want him to fade? Don't bring him up. But bullying is for chumps regardless of how it's done.

Don't know a damn thing about a damn thing here. I really don't know too much about a, b, or c. I just know folks hate him and that's been pretty consistent for quite some time now. Cunts gunna cunt, but I don't think that's too off from how I hear it is with headmen (is that what they call them?) at the time.

NEVER TAKE MELATONIN! DON'T LISTEN TO A SOUL ON THAT SHIT! DON'T DO IT, IT IS A SLEEP KILLER!!!!

*This person isn't advocating it but I have by word of mouth found it and by word of "mouth" I shall spread that it's total bullshit!

After a shit-traumatic event I crammed bb down my throat to chill the fuck out. It was my Tetris =P! That opening song is fucking AWFUL to sleep to. And I wouldn't advise it for anyone personally because it has woken me from the depths a truck-ton when I was using it during that period. Counter - I am always an advocate of their earlier show dr. katz. That's a good sleep show because it's like a podcast and not terribly loud or "exciting" but that's just me.

Yes, my partner watches shows on her phone too. It has to be something she knows like the back of her hand but she still likes. To be honest it's pretty much Futurama or American Dad and she plays it with the filters on and set down a bit so it doesn't bug me (too much). I still don't like having tv on personally in the house. I also have a Sony alarm clock that everyone hates for being "too dark" but it's the only led I allow in my bedroom. Everything else is painted over with acrylic, turned off or taped over. It keeps things from distracting me. If you don't like sleeping in the dark - find what you do like sleeping in. They sell multi-colored lights you can find your own rhythm and if you're interested in a partner(s) down the line (or have one currently) there's surely either something a) you both/all can agree on or b) will find that magical glass slipper of a person who likes the same sleep setup as you =P!

Heyyyy!! I dig it, go grandpa! Glad that he's still kicking. Apologies. My family is the size of a peanut and never really had much in the way of _ anything =P! Really. And it's pretty non-traditional so I don't know much about you know stuff like this. But I have read a lot about wills and people being money hungry. And I hilariously think about god what was that one movie...I forgot it's name but that one Wes...oh - Grand Budapest Hotel. Isn't there a scene in it where a bunch of folks come out the woodwork looking for snips of cash? I'm not sure how all estates are settled, but I will say that if your mother is being inappropriate about her father's finances I'm glad that she's been superseded.

I'm sorry about your grandma though, it is rough and grandmas make the world go round so big hugs there. I said my peace on all of that, and it really just...ugh. You love em, even when they're long gone. Sounds like something's gone down but all things aside I think the high road is the one worth taking 9/10 times. Then sometimes you just gotta head into Russia and bomb up the joint. But all things aside, I hate passive aggressiveness (perhaps because I am aggressively aggressive) but that shit always rubs me the wrong way. It's like playing shitty chess, and and people are trying to subversively manipulate you instead of saying what they need. And you've got a wife - so you've got to know clear communication is necessary to keep a healthy relationship going. So at the end of the day I actually (personally) consider that shit abusive. Which...on my end kinda sucks =P! Cause I currently live in for sure one of the most passive aggressive states in America =P!

No worries about feels dumps, you gotta express yourself and you're SUPER allowed to. Hell I dump all over the joint, no worries! I think you're a bigger person for dumping because most people keep that shit in. I mean for each of us, how many people are just sneaking around peeking at shit and being little voyeurs. At least you're out here participating =P! You do you, you're doing good!

I have had the grace of being able to form a little micro-relationship with my last grandma and get some stories (as well as share some) which would otherwise be lost to time. Including some really eye opening things, which have been so...pleasing as a human to hear. I honestly - well the one thing I told my gal when I met her is that I want a relationship much akin to my grandparents. Because most folks come and go and bob and weave. The gay community isn't know for it's sticking power when it comes to relationships. And I was getting older and I just wanted a person to "span time with" (thank you Buffalo 66). And we've been together since for 10 years and shit has been all over the place but I am really thankful she bought in. Cause you gotta get someone to buy in, you can't force that kinda thing =P! And it has been such a lovely thing to have that kind of commitment and I really wish it for most folks (not all, but most) in a relationship because I don't think I'd trade this for anything. And while our branches of the tree might not be continuing onward after us it's been a blast just being able to be with someone you can laugh and reminisce with even after 10 freakin' years. I might not get that whole 50, but I hope I can get some solid time with the missus before one of us leaves this mortal coil.

That got me all in a feels kinda way. You put a dumb smile on my face, and I thank you (and your seemingly lovely grandfather) for that =)! Best of luck, and people who put money over family don't understand the meaning of life. Cheers!

Ah shit, yeah see I didn't know. Just you know - listen to the music cause a cute gal likes it. Typical dumb teen shit =P! Yeah actually, I dig joints like that but I see their roots fading as time goes on. Kinda like say - Andersonville in Chicago. I mean still there, but for sure less a cultural thing, more of a "chip-ster" (chill hipster) spot =P!

My namie-name is a reference to the goof-about show Mandy. In it there's a payday loans commercial for a company called Cash Maggot =P! S'all~