Is it normal for ADHD people to find it hard to cum because you think about laundry?
6mon 17d ago in adhdI don't have ADHD - but as I've heard commonly expressed by women... Stress about unfulfilled tasks makes getting and staying in a zone where sex feels possible and enjoyable so much harder. I can only assume ADHD makes trying to refocus on the moment extra challenging.
Do you have a 401k or other retirement account that you contribute to?
7mon 14d ago in AskUSA@discuss.online from discuss.onlineYep! And every employer that has offered has had some kind of match.
I've rolled all my 401ks over with each new job.
I also have an IRA from money I saved towards retirement while working in Canada for 18 months. I took the tax penalty up front since I'll probably be US based for majority of my life. But I did earn a match while working in Canada.
Current employer gives 4% fully vested.
Contributing 20% of income at the moment (30 to) and hoping to retire before 60.
I had a good day
7mon 15d ago in adhdLMAO. Brilliant. Sounds like an easy recipe to repeat 😁
Congrats! That is so many tasks and so many times refocusing! I hope you gave yourself permission to celebrate such a huge win!
The most male and female reasons to be admitted to the hospital
7mon 15d ago in dataisbeautiful from media.piefed.worldI think they should be separate. Like if a woman gives birth twice in one year (ow) that would be two visits.
Can width of bars be changed based on number of visits? The pregnancy related ones probably skew the data. I know pie charts are terrible but could they be useful in this case?
I feel like what's missing is the magnitude of each of these versus the others
Conversations with Conservatives
7mon 15d ago in politicalmemes from lemmy.zipTHANK YOU for making this the first logical comment I've seen on Lemmy for a while. THIS IS THE WAY!
How do I finally get a long term career and become financially independent?
7mon 21d ago in nostupidquestionsThe never respond makes me think it could be a cover letter/resume problem - check resources for those. And like other people mention, contacts help when your resume isn't stellar. Consider reaching out to people directly on LinkedIn (I did this for a local engineering company that didn't have any jobs posted... but they still hired me). Might help if resume or cover letter is getting filtered out by AI during the process.
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7mon 21d ago in whitepeopletwitter@sh.itjust.works from lemmy.dbzer0.comI believe there's studies showing that fewer handoffs lead to better patient outcomes.
I know people who prefer 12 hours shifts. My partner is scheduled for 7-7:30 shifts. Including a half hour lunch break, that means there's a 30 minute handover window while still working 12 hours... in the end they get paid for when they are clocked in/out and not when they are scheduled.
Looking for bank based in the US that would allow me to hold foreign currency in a checking or savings account [US]
1y 1mon ago in personalfinance@lemmy.mlWise has been mentioned and I would also recommend. HOWEVER, remember that money held by them isn't insured the same way as at a bank. For instance, I would put money in for long enough to have an auto transaction when an the interest rate is what I want to then send on to my French bank account but I wouldn't simply hold cash longer than necessary. Also useful if you get their debit card so you don't need to take out cash in different currencies on a trip. You can transfer the money within "accounts" on the app and then use debit card to draw from appropriate one. Fees have always looked fair when I did comparisons.
(Also note that US requires foreign bank accounts with holdings greater than $10,000 to be declared yearly around tax time.)
Career Options - Civil
2y 3mon ago in engineering@lemmy.mlfirst successful credit card bonus!
2y 10mon ago in churning@lemm.eeMy mom found me adorable wedding sandals!
2y 10mon ago in weddings from discuss.onlinehappy family things
2y 10mon ago in weddingsBegging to go out into the 100 deg heat...
2y 10mon ago in rabbits from discuss.onlinebuncomfortable
2y 11mon ago in rabbits from discuss.onlineTheodore circa 2021
2y 11mon ago in rabbits from discuss.onlinea friend made an album!
2y 11mon ago in general from open.spotify.comsupervising bedtime
2y 11mon ago in rabbits from discuss.onlinewe be chilling
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