Well you are contradicting.

People who are affected by the hate speech, can easily chose one of the many instances that are curating and censoring, and that is completely fine. The others who are not sensitive to it and want to hear what the other side is saying, should have a way to do so I think.

And basically all hate-speech is same idea. It is a rephrasing of one, single thought: “Those others, who are different to us, are inferior, and a threat to our way of life.”

Well you know, the same is said by both sides, and on both sides people always find a way to justify their stance and portray the other side as the worst evil, while the reality is in between.

That's why I am not picking sides, but instead decide on my own what I think make sense what does not, but in order to be able to do that, one needs to be exposed to both sides of the argument. You don't need to agree on everything with particular group, but you can agree on some things

Well I posted this to see if there are instances that already have similar principles, without creating my own.

Exactly, I am not necessarily planning on participating in these communities, I am just trying to be open minded and see what is posted there, who knows maybe there is something interesting.

Well the removal of posts and comments cannot be avoided. What I want is just to be able to see everything on my feed, and to be able to decide the communities I want to ban instead of admins doing that for me.

Well sure running my own instance would work, but I don't think it is necessary really, as I am sure there are people who think similar and have instances dedicated to this.

Thank you for taking your time to reply, but you misunderstood my question.

I am not looking for an instance that promotes hate speech. I am just looking for one that is not planning to defederate.