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binder/bra strapts showing are such a look owo

enbies need bad too 🥺

i'm personally not there yet. it still hurts when people (mis)gender me. i hope to get to that point where i don't care anymore tho :3

heyy, it's ok if you do not know someones gender. it's really not that important. just treat it as the unknown that it is, and either refer to the person gender neutrally, or ask if you need to know. just please do not guess, because that just leads to you accidentally hurting people :)

that's what i though about my gender and then i always got mad at people guessing without asking me and guessing wrong and it got awkward and honestly i should have just told them cause honestly if the ignorant mountain doesn't come to you, you gotta be the bigger bitch and come to the mounten or something i don't fucking know

fuck this society and it's normativities but unfortunately it won't change on it's own :<

i'd make a creative joke, but no time, i gotta configure neovim!!

i think the trouble with making the masculine versions the new neutral is that it can 1. come across as erasing women/non men and 2. can feel especially offensive to transfems. so while it would be an easy solution, it might not be the best.

on the other hand, i try to do my part and for example only use actor and waiter and never actress and waitress :3

english is very nice for how few gendered words it has (unlike some horrible other languages ;w;) and i love to try to speak completely gender neutral

cute comic, but ngl i do not like the inplication here, that hormones are what decides ones gender