Hello all! Hope you’re having a good time on Lemmy.
As the total number of users grows across all instances, this community will need more moderators to be able to keep up with its goals and user safety. That’s why we are currently looking for 2 extra moderators to join in!
I believe in communities being moderated by human beings, with great transparency, diversity and with a genuine desire for keeping the community open. If you’re interested in joining us, please PM me with a message (the size of which is up to you) containing the following information:
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Why do you want to join as a moderator for /c/Relationship_Advice?
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During what timezones are you most likely to be active on Lemmy?
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Do you have any experience as a moderator? If not, what do you feel might be the biggest challenge?
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What’s a fun fact about your favorite animal, writer or piece of artwork/entertainment?
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In your own words, what do you feel like a Relationship_Advice community should be able to provide users? And what should be its main objective?
Thanks to all applicants and, most importantly, thanks to all our users. I hope you enjoy your time here.
I’d also like to use this post to announce that, while our rules remain the same, our sidebar now contains a clear description of how bans will occur and any possible exceptions, aiding in our goal of maximum transparency.
Have a nice day!
Hi, I just want to say I am a big fan of your sub and I want to try out as a moderator. I am would be honored if given such opportunity.
Why do you want to join as a moderator for /c/Relationship_Advice?
I want to keep a healthy, safe community for people to share thoughts and express kindness. I believe a safe, kind space is important for all of us
- During what timezones are you most likely to be active on Lemmy?
Central time
- Do you have any experience as a moderator? If not, what do you feel might be the biggest challenge?
It would be my first time. I may not know how to use the tools or how to response to numerous responses but I would try my best.
- What’s a fun fact about your favorite animal, writer or piece of artwork/entertainment?
I am a pet lover as you can tell from my username. I love how my dog looks at me with his expressive eyes, my cats with their head bunts. When my cats sit on my lap, my worries disappear.
- In your own words, what do you feel like a Relationship_Advice community should be able to provide users? And what should be its main objective?
I hope our community will remain a healthy and safe space for users to ask for their relationship advice appropriately. I believe we can provide support each other in this digital age when asking for help IRL may be embarrassing.
List of important resources and hotlines for getting help
3y 18d ago by lemmy.world/u/kadu in relationship_adviceI have a boyfriend, but I'm struggling with the thought of leaving him for my ex because of boredom I'm experiencing in our relationship. What do I do?
13d 23h ago by lemmy.world/u/geuzzlg in relationship_adviceReally confused about my relationship with my bestfriend. Would love insight and advice.
15d 1h ago by lemmy.blahaj.zone/u/bravenatey in relationship_adviceWeird issue with friends that I can't really ask anyone about
23d 15h ago by lemmy.zip/u/underscores in relationship_advice| (25F) keep fixating on a guy (26M) I don't know from Instagram, how do I stop?
1mon 14d ago by thelemmy.club/u/icycombo7 in relationship_adviceNeighbor "Dispute" - am I petty or protecting my prop lines?
1mon 29d ago by lemmy.world/u/flandish in relationship_adviceMy Son Wants to Change His Last Name to "Carrington" - Feeling Frustrated and Disappointed
1mon 17h ago by sopuli.xyz/u/Grimreaper in relationship_adviceMy girlfriend sees herself with a man and I'm not a man, what do I do? I feel so petty...
2mon 1d ago by feddit.org/u/Klarinette245 in relationship_adviceDo I have a crush? Should I tell my partners?
2mon 6d ago by feddit.org/u/Klarinette245 in relationship_adviceUpdate: Is it normal for a partner to not answer your texts or make time for you at all?
2mon 20d ago by piefed.social/u/wendyz in relationship_advicePoly people, anyone else who has one partner completely obsessed with their other partner and barely devotes their time to you?
2mon 21d ago by piefed.social/u/wendyz in relationship_advicePoly, dating someone really hung up on a guy who doesn't care[??]
2mon 23d ago by piefed.social/u/wendyz in relationship_adviceNeed advice: undefined relationship by M choice, F got another number when out
2mon 26d ago by lemmus.org/u/Confusedlife in relationship_adviceDating someone more sensitive than I am
2mon 26d ago by lemmy.world/u/chrischryse in relationship_adviceMy wife and I are thinking about breaking up with our girlfriend
2mon 3h ago by piefed.world/u/SatansMaggotyCumFart in relationship_adviceTell me I'm not overreacting
3mon 3d ago by lemmy.world/u/AHamSandwich in relationship_advice3.5 year relationship communication/ boundary issues. AITA?
3mon 8d ago by lemmy.world/u/timmy_dean_sausage in relationship_adviceDid my old crush Karl have feelings for me or did he string me along?
3mon 12d ago by lemmy.ca/u/voytek709 in relationship_advice(Texts between us) So what is happening here exactly? I know I’m in the wrong now but am I gaslighting her??
3mon 16d ago by lemmy.ca/u/voytek709 in relationship_adviceWhat do you think of this convo? Am I in the wrong?
3mon 16d ago by lemmy.ca/u/voytek709 in relationship_advicewhat did you all do when you were obsessed with your partner?
3mon 23d ago by lemmings.world/u/blackwitch in relationship_adviceHI WHAT SHOULD I DO?
3mon 26d ago by discuss.online/u/IHatePepRallies in relationship_adviceI (white) and dating a girl who is black what are some things I should know to grow the relationship?
4mon 5d ago by lemmy.world/u/chrischryse in relationship_adviceDoes she wanna be friends or not? Should I be her friend?
4mon 23d ago by thelemmy.club/u/may_be in relationship_adviceHow long should I know a person for before asking them out?
5mon 4d ago by thelemmy.club/u/may_be in relationship_adviceAdvice for improving family relations?
5mon 8d ago by lemmy.ca/u/Pyr_Pressure in relationship_adviceShould I ask my social worker, again, to use the correct name, gender, and pronouns?
5mon 16d ago by lemmings.world/u/anthony in relationship_adviceHow important is chemistry/attraction? Can it develop over time?
6mon 25d ago by lemmy.world/u/ThrowAwayForObvReasons in relationship_adviceHow to break up and stay friends while still in love?
7mon 7d ago by lemmy.world/u/MTK in relationship_adviceWife is mad jealous, knows it a problem, asked me where to get help.
7mon 9d ago by lemmy.world/u/shalafi in relationship_adviceHow will my crush react to this… 😬
7mon 10d ago by lemmy.blahaj.zone/u/atheqtpie in relationship_adviceAdvice on a new relationship?
7mon 10d ago by thelemmy.club/u/may_be in relationship_adviceHow do you deal with uncertainty and internalised shit as a panromantic/pansexual questioning person?
7mon 13d ago by piefed.social/u/adhd_traco in relationship_adviceI'm (31m) having trouble communicating things that are bothering me to my partner (30F) because her insecurities and anxiety keep me having to assure her.
7mon 20d ago by sh.itjust.works/u/meep_launcher in relationship_adviceBreakup: I love you but im not in love with you
7mon 25d ago by lemmy.world/u/TwoBeeSan in relationship_advice(28M) and (28F) a decade of going back and forth
7mon 26d ago by lemmy.world/u/lillo9546 in relationship_adviceHelp: I made a mistake!
7mon 27d ago by lemmings.world/u/StupidIdiot in relationship_advicemy partner has been mentally unwell and i can't be there for them. is it over? how can i be there for them?
7mon 2d ago by lemmings.world/u/StupidIdiot in relationship_adviceWhat do I do?
8mon 4d ago by thelemmy.club/u/relation_anon4238 in relationship_advicehaving dreams about my girlfriend, kinda freaked out despite these being normal(??)
8mon 7d ago by thelemmy.club/u/nonBInary in relationship_adviceis my friend right?
8mon 8d ago by thelemmy.club/u/nonBInary in relationship_adviceMy social worker says I have to come out if I want them to use the correct name and pronouns.
8mon 9d ago by lemmings.world/u/anthony in relationship_adviceMy new friend might be in an abusive relationship. What can I do?
8mon 10d ago by lemmy.world/u/KingDingbat in relationship_adviceOlder friend made out with me during a night out, but told me it was a friendly kiss
8mon 17d ago by lemmy.world/u/Clbull in relationship_adviceI (30s F) am head over heels for my best friend (late 20s F), but she's afraid of changing our relationship.
8mon 28d ago by lemmy.world/u/Suck_on_my_Presence in relationship_advicemixed signals
8mon 7h ago by thelemmy.club/u/nonBInary in relationship_adviceex understandably won't initiate contact with me, how do i befriend her? should i?
8mon 2d ago by thelemmy.club/u/nonBInary in relationship_adviceshould i tell my ex(?) that we should just be friends or continue being in a confusing relationship?
8mon 3d ago by thelemmy.club/u/nonBInary in relationship_adviceAm I just waiting for a "break-up" text now?
9mon 5d ago by lemmy.blahaj.zone/u/latenightnoir in relationship_advice