Have your parents ever said something so unhinged that you’re just left standing there like🧍♂️?
1y 18d ago by lemmy.world/u/destructdisc in childfree
cross-posted from: https://sh.itjust.works/post/39289533
Mine hit me with the “We're spending all this money on you now so you can’t grow up and say we didn’t spend money on you when your were a kid.”
My mom constantly told me I was a mistake... that I should have been aborted. We were poor, miserable, and despite me trying my best, she never seemed happy with me.
After that, I vowed I would NEVER have a kid. I made her so miserable. I'm open to fostering, but I'd never bring a whole, new human into this world.
You are an monetary investment I expect to pay off
Damn its no wonder I ended up a communist actually fuck
My mum frequently says negative stuff to me, but the one that sticks with me a lot is when she called me a "freak that no one will ever love" after I came out as trans.
Damn I'm so sorry you have that ultra white privilege in your life.
... Is that what your parents said to you?