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4mon 22d ago by lemmy.world/u/hungrythirstyhorny in relationship_advice@lemmy.ml

so theres this sweet girl ive found on the internet. we live on a different country, the time difference is 2 hours. and since weve been texting and called intensely for 2 weeks, i kinda like her and have a feeling for her, although i still not so sure about her feelings for me idk if this is seemed to rushed or maybe just an obsession, but ive been thinking to give her a gift on her birthday which is on 25th may

here's some of her background that i know

  • her favorite color is black ( she said so that she can easily combine the outfit she would wear)
  • she loves to read a book ( Fyodor Dostoyevsky, i guess its her favorite author)
  • she loves to write a journal about her experience and a poem
  • she likes to listen to lana del rey, NIKI
  • she loves to go to the park or a beach sitting alone looking at the sky,
  • her last relationship ended mid 2024 ( idk if this is relevant)
  • she loves 'perfect days' a japanese movie, ghibli studios movies
  • shes work at an agriculture company
  • she loves to cook
  • she loves to drinking a coffee especially black
  • she lives with a friend, her families lives at the same country that i live in, just different cities
  • i think shes been through a lot, i know this after i read her journal the she gave me, inside her journal theres a lot of sadness and loneliness and how she always looking for the love of her life and asking for someone to take care of her and how she always wishing me to be there with her although she didn't give me the exact address yet
  • sometimes she act clingy,

theres so far all the things that i know about her, if you guys think why would i be asking this so early, i need a lot of time to prepare everything, cos i kinda work for 12 hours a day and 6 days a week, and i need to calculate the date i should be shipping the gift so that the gift could arrives on time

so? any thoughts? should i give her a gift? if yes what should i give? i think a more personal gifts would be good, ive been doing some research lately,

and theres one of pewdiepie's video where he made a gadget with a raspberry pi, where it tells you he weather and what to wear, and drinking tracker, ( im not an IT person, so ive been looking for the tutorial, but i havent foundt it yet, and im afraid i would be fail to make it) does this would be a perfect gift? or maybe you guys have another advices? or is there anything you want to ask me?

please help me. thanks :)

pardon my english